India has always been the land of Arranged Marriages. It was not until a few years ago that dating culture has evolved in India. And it is rapidly progressing. The fact that Indian minds are becoming more and more liberal can contribute to much more progress in the future. Dating culture, although relatively new in India is not much different from dating culture all around the globe. Although there are a few things, you should keep in mind before you start dating in India.
You should also know that Dating, live-in and pre-marital sex is more common in metro cities and some other slightly modern localities. But there are still many areas untouched by the dating culture. So depends on where you are, your approach towards a woman should change.
Here are some things you should know before you start dating in India:
Importance of Family
To an Indian guy or girl, her family means a lot. It is not like people around the globe do not respect their family, but things are a little different when it comes to Indian families. Indian women do not tend to disclose their relationship until much later. In contrast, Indian men faceless hindrance in this field.
You should also know that Indian families are very protective of their daughters, and this would result in restrictions, which means fewer dinner dates and late night clubs for you guys!
Cultural Importance
India is the land full of colors. Here you will find cultural diversity like nowhere else. And this has a severe impact on the dating culture. Depending on her background and cultural upbringing, her approach to Dating might vary. And you need to be on the lookout for the same.
In addition to this, you also need to respect her culture and not be indifferent towards it.
Friends
It is highly uncommon for an Indian woman to go anywhere without her girl-friends. And this proves to be a potential barrier for many guys. When it comes to approaching someone, you would feel a little intimidated if she is surrounded by her posse.
But don’t worry, you can still make your first move. Just wait for her to catch a break from her friends.
You should also know that things don’t end here. It is just the beginning. You would find some of her friends still accompanying you on dates. Dating in India entitles you to a constant third wheel!
Stereotypes
When you are dating an Indian woman or are just friends with her, try not to bring up stereotypical questions. ‘Do you have elephants at your wedding?’ or ‘Do you worship cows?’. The thing to know here is some do, and then some don’t. So it is best not to categorize all under the same name.
And honestly, these questions are a little offensive. And you might end up sacrificing all your possible chances with her. So be on the safe side and do not ask stupid questions. It is best if you let her explain things.
Her idea of Dating
As mentioned earlier, dating culture is relatively new in India. And this is the reason why most Indian women have a different vision when it comes to Dating. It might create some differences between the two of you. So it is best to talk before you invite her over for dinner. It is only wise to keep your mind open when it comes to dating in India.
Friend of a friend of a friend
It wasn’t until recently that dating websites and apps took the lead. Before that, it was all about friends and their friends. Most women would engage with men who are recommended by their friends. So it is not uncommon that a friend of yours might introduce you to someone who he thinks is a good fit for you.
And this has a lot of significance in India. An Indian woman is more comfortable dating someone who her friends or colleagues recommend.
When you talk about dating in India, you should tread lightly. There are still many things that are new and unexplored. Just keep in mind that what you think is hip and cool might be absurd for her.
Here are some more things you should know before dating in India: