Domestic and Gender-based Violence: Growing Pandemics of Humanity

In the postmodern world torn by war and humanitarian crisis, we are also ravaged by a widespread culture of gender-based bullying and discrimination. It is such a shame that in our world where unparalleled depravity and hypocrisy of patriarchy reigns supreme, the sub-human behaviour of ‘humans’ breaks open in direst manifestations every day. 

However, driven by a conservative social ethos which is at the core of our upbringing, such tormenting narratives of abuse are mostly shrouded in a culture of silence. Silence that teaches us to endure predatory threats and pain because the words ‘stigma’ and ‘fear’ overpower our conscience infinitely. But for how long would we throttle the screams of the abused? 

Gender-based violence and Domestic violence

Gender-based violence and Domestic violence facts:

Did you know that gender-based violence (concerted, manipulated violence and abuse against women and young girls) is the most dangerous pandemic of our times, with an estimated one in three women experiencing physical and/or sexual abuse in her lifetime?

Did you know that such ghastly deeds of violence (not excluding domestic violence and intimate partner violence) are a worldwide phenomenon in terms of its overall statistics analyzed by UNFPA? One of United Nation’s leading agencies working proactively for the cause of gender equality and women’s empowerment, UNFPA gives you some startling facts which would scare the living daylights out of you. 

  • 1 million pregnant women worldwide face life-threatening complications every month, instigated by violence. 
  • Child marriage, a growing menace in an apparently progressive world, could affect an estimated 70 million over the next 5 years (approximately one in four girls in the developing world is married before age 18.)
  • Female genital mutilation (FGM) harms 3 million young girls annually.
  • Victims of violence are prone to force and unwanted pregnancies, unsafe abortions, traumatic fistula, HIV, and even death.  

What faith can we have in a world ravaged with growing female foeticides, abuse on the differently-abled, heinous crimes perpetrated by criminals within families? What is the cumulative consciousness of the world doing to fight this menace?

Domestic Violence/Abuse during the Quarantine Period:

In the current context, the world is fighting tooth and nails with the pandemic of Coronavirus which has been a great leveller, wiping the discrimination between the poor and rich, the young and old, the social influencers and the laymen. Now, with the global lockdown measures, should we forget about another deadly pandemic of humanity which has reportedly grown in leaps and bounds, as inevitable aftermath? Ironically, the menace of gender-based violence, rape, physical torture, like COVID-19, knows no social, economic or national boundaries! 

Experts unanimously contend that even under normal circumstances, violence against women and young girls is a spine-chilling everyday reality. But what happens when nationwide acts of Quarantine serve to escalate abuse, rape and violence, along with serious mental health concerns? In Ukraine, Russia, the number of calls to the National Hotline on Combatting Domestic Violence increased by almost 26 per cent in the first two weeks of quarantine. A startling fact, which we might compare with India, another ‘danger zone’ for gender violence. 

Very recently, the National Commission of Women in Hyderabad, India officially declared that an increasing number of abuse and domestic violence are complained, with women bearing the brunt of this upheaval. “Staying with the perpetrator in the same house during the lockdown period makes it even more difficult for the victims”, says Tripurana Venkatratnam, advisor, NCW. How would women in the fringes or in remote areas who do not have access to phones, internet or hotline numbers reach out for help under such circumstances? 

In the war zones of Syria and in Jordan, outreach workers are struggling hard as with the new social distancing rules, women centres and safe spaces are closing doors, against the ever-growing pandemic of gender violence cases. In Jordan, a curfew has been imposed and there has been no place to hide for women and young girls who are victims of violence. Also, the fragile settings of these zones are further impacted in the wake of COVID-19. Hundreds of females are dying each day from complications of pregnancy and childbirth, while on the other hand, their vulnerability to abuse and violence escalates hugely.  

It is surely an uphill battle, but there is still some ray of hope as UNPFA recently accumulates a sum of $187.5 million for the treatment and counselling services for survivors of gender-based violence. Let us hope and pray it brings positive changes for the survivors in the coming days, once the lockdown is relaxed. 

The shadow pandemic is lurking in the fringes, beyond the purview of the other pandemic. Shouldn’t we fight to eradicate this one too? 

Reference:

Gender Based Violence

https://www.unfpa.org/news/when-quarantine-unsafe-domestic-violence-survivors-seek-help-ukraine

https://www.unfpa.org/news/pandemic-threatens-communities-ravaged-war-and-crisis-global-support-needed

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8 comments

  1. So relevant in today’s date,Di..
    Elaborately crafted..
    And the most biggest crimes and social violence eventually described vividly..Di
    KUDOS…❤❤?

    SONALI CHANDA

  2. A very worthwhile piece, Lopa. I’ve been concerned about the same thing.

    I would also add emotional and verbal abuse. Those leave no visible scars but damage just the same.

    In a Lockdown, the abuser is confined by limitations and stress. The fallout is projected onto the victim.

    Unfortunately, the victim doesn’t always have many options to escape the abuser.

    The children learn how to respond by observation. Repression or imitation are some of the choices on the table so they are not targeted by the same wrath.

    There’s a suggestion going around the internet that if a friend calls you up and orders makeup — something like “Do you still carry that lipstick/mascara?”, it’s a code for help. The other suggestion that I’ve seen is to dial the police station and order a pizza. (This option may not be available in all areas.)
    Thank you for writing about this topic. It is a subject in which I feel deeply.

  3. Well articulated. We should definitely fight against this though the path is full of hurdles as most cases go unreported.

  4. Extremely relevant. Thanks for bringing this to the fore! Very well written. ?

  5. This is such a relevant topic and you have portrayed it so well. Seeking help instead of remaining silent is the only way to counter this.

  6. A very well crafted article , with the end of this crisis, each one of us will get to experience the reality we are all living in.

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